Safety Tips

Last updated November 2, 2026

Most people you'll meet are just looking for a good time or a good person. These habits keep it that way.

Before you meet

Chat on Vous first. Be wary of anyone who pushes you off the app quickly.
Never send money, gift cards, crypto or financial details to someone you met online, whatever the story.
Do a quick video call or look them up to make sure they are who they say they are.
Don't share your home address, workplace or daily routine early on.

When you meet

Meet in a busy public place, and get there and back on your own.
Tell a friend where you'll be and who you're meeting; share your live location if you like.
Watch your drink and stay in control of how much you have.
You can leave at any time, for any reason.

Consent

Consent is clear, enthusiastic and can be withdrawn at any moment. "Casual" on a profile is not consent to anything.

Something wrong?

Report and block anyone who makes you uncomfortable; we review every report.
Vous does not run criminal background checks on members.
If you are in danger, call 911. For sexual assault support, call RAINN at 800-656-4673 (24/7). For domestic violence, call 800-799-7233.

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